Take Time Out

June 28, 2011

Everyone needs time off, a vacation, a chance to think about things other than work. This is no less true for the small church pastor than anyone else.  Pastor, you need to get away from time to time.

Many pastors have trouble with this.  After all, we are called of God to this work and He will give us the extra energy we need to function.  Our job is not like others--souls hang in the balance and we must be there if we are going to minister to people.  We just don;t have time to get away.

Sometimes church members don't think the pastor should be gone.  I recall at one church I was gone one Sunday and the treasurer didn't think I should be paid for my time off.  Fortunately, others set things straight and there was no trouble caused.  But I have seen entire churches that gave their pastors a hard time if they wanted some time off.

But being a pastor is a high pressure calling.  And any doctor will tell you that people in vocations that have a lot of tension must have down time.  If not, serious health problems can result.  Which is better, a pastor who takes a little time off, or a pastor who is constantly sick?

And don't fool yourself into thinking you accomplish more work than other pastors just because you don't take time out.  There was once a wagon train headed for California.  When Sunday came, a group refused to go on, saying the Lord had ordained a day of rest.  The majority disagreed, stating they needed to get west as soon as possible and they pushed on.  Of course, this trip took months.  Each Sunday the little group rested giving themselves and their animals a break.  Before reaching California, the small group caught up to and passed the other and arrived first.

You are no different.  You are kidding yourself if you think your church will be better if you constantly work and never rest.  God built the sabbath principle into the universe and you cannot get around it.

Also, failing to get away will take it's toll on your family.  They may put up a bold front and claim they understand, but the fact is you are causing damage to your wife and kids if you never get away.  I know of a man who has been a great pastor.  But he refused to go on vacations or even miss a single Sunday. He was very passionate for the ministry.  But his wife of many years finally left him.  He sadly miscalculated his priorities.

Pastor, do yourself, your family, and your church a favor.  Take time out and get your batteries recharged.

 

The Most Important Factor to Manage Change in the Small Church

June 11, 2011

Wow what a title!  Long titles are not usually my thing...but sometimes there is no short way to say something.  And guess what?  There is no short way to bring about change in the small church.

Too many pastors go into a small church with the idea that they are going to bring about many changes that will lead the congregation into the new century and remarkable growth.  That very seldom happens.  Instead, a few years and a lot of tears later, the pastor departs for "greener pastures" and the ...


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Preaching is Important

June 3, 2011

  I recently read a post on a blog about small churches in which the writer said she loved everything about small church except she would hate to give up good Bible preaching.  There seems to be a misconception out there that a little congregation must have inferior preaching.

  Let me assure you that such is not the case.  I have been in hundreds of small churches and heard some of the finest preaching to be found.  It is true that many mega church pastors have people on staff to do extra res...


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The Small Church as a Clinic Instead of a Hospital

April 1, 2011

  Most of my life I have heard people refer to the church as a hospital for the spiritually ill.  It is a good comparison as people who need spiritual healing often seek out the church just as those who need physical healing go to the local hospital.

  But there is a new breed of people in America today.  We are now dealing with a generation of folks who were not raised in church.  Many adults today have never seen the inside of a church building except for an occasional wedding or funeral. ...


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Being a Truly Friendly Church

February 20, 2011

  I have never run across a church that did not consider itself to be friendly.  Ask any active member of any congregation and they will tell you that their congregation is one of the friendliest in town.

  The problem is that not every outsider sees it that way.  Many a visitor has been turned off by what they felt was a cold attitude at a church they had tried out.  So it is obvious that friendliness or at least the perception of it can be measured in different ways.

  I submit that a chu...


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Counseling in the Small Church

February 1, 2011

  Small church pastors are called upon to fill many shoes.  They are there at weddings, births, and deaths.  They go to the hospital to pray with the sick of the church.  Sometimes they are the only non-family member some shut ins see.  All of this is in addition to the regular duties of teaching, preaching, praying, studying, and witnessing.

  And very often they are called upon to serve as counselor.  From marital problems to sin issues, he is expected to listen to and have answers for a l...


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Why Mess with Social Networks?

January 25, 2011

  Many churches and religious organizations have a facebook page.  You can follow man ministry leaders on Twitter.  Other social networking sites offer a number of Christian ministry choices to view.

  But many small church leaders have to be asking “Is it worth the trouble?”  Small church pastors tend to be over extended already.  Maintaining a facebook site or tweeting your latest theological thoughts seems like a lot to ask for someone with limited time.

  You have to consider the bi...


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Why Mess with Social Networks?

January 20, 2011

  Many churches and religious organizations have a facebook page.  You can follow man ministry leaders on Twitter.  Other social networking sites offer a number of Christian ministry choices to view.

  But many small church leaders have to be asking "Is it worth the trouble?"  Small church pastors tend to be over extended already.  Maintaining a facebook site or tweeting your latest theological thoughts seems like a lot to ask for someone with limited time.

  You have to consider the bigge...


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Can the Church Learn from Coke?

December 8, 2010

  In my last post I made some comparisons to the marketing strategy of Mountain Dew and the church sharing the gospel.  The main thing to remember from that article is that the soft drink maker changed their marketing but kept their product the same (although someone pointed out that the formula was changed in 1960, but that was long before the time period I dealt with).  In the same way some churches may need to update the methods they use to reach a lost and dying world with the saving gosp...


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Can the Church Learn from Mountain Dew?

November 16, 2010

  When i was a kid Mt. Dew had a very different marketing strategy than they do today.  Back then the soft drink maker used a hillbilly theme.  There was a picture of a hillbilly aiming a gun at a fleeing man on the front.  On the neck of the bottle was the same hillbilly holding a jug with the cork popping off and putting a hole in his hat.  And on the back was the company's profound slogan "It'll tickle your innards" (now how's that for a catchy phrase!).  Although this motif had the bevera...


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