Rural Church and Interracial Marriage

December 4, 2011

By now most of you have probably heard of the small church in rural Kentucky that voted to ban interracial couples from membership or taking part in singing specials and other forms of public worship.  It was a slim vote--only 9 to 6, but passed all the same.  Many bloggers have commented and I now throw my hat into the ring.

The Bible is clear that it is God who adds to His church, not man.  Therefore it is wrong to place any standards for membership other than those set forth in scripture.  The only requirements are to trust in Jesus as Lord and Savior and to submit to believer's baptism.  That's it.

Now if a person claims the above but is living in a sinful lifestyle, then that person can be denied membership.  And thus the Kentucky vote.  They apparently believe it is sinful to be in a mixed marriage.  If they were right, then it would be okay to ban these couples.  But the Bible not only does not say it is wrong, it gives numerous examples of interracial marriages that had God's blessings.

The first example I cite is Moses, who married an Ethiopian.  When his siblings objected, God struck his sister Miriam with leprosy.  Now if this marriage was wrong, don't you think God would have been on her side?

Next we find the harlot Rahab who married an Israelite after the battle of Jericho.  As a Canaanite, she was a foreigner and was thus not to be considered for wedding material.  Yet the book of Matthew reveals that she became an ancestor of Jesus Christ.

And then there is Ruth the Moabite who married Boaz and Israelite.  God inspired an entire book of the Bible to be devoted to her story.  Her words of love to her mother in law have been read at many Christian weddings.  God had forbidden the people to marry Moabites, but He did not object to this union and she also became an ancestor of Jesus.

So why did God tell the Israelites not to intermarry with foreigners and then allow it at times?  The reason is the ban was not for racial reasons but for spiritual reasons.  He told them not to marry these people because they were pagans and would turn their hearts away from Him.  But when one of these people turned from their idols and accepted  the one true God, they were then acceptable candidates for marriage.

Thus the problem is not interracial marriage but rather the union of a believer and a nonbeliever.  Indeed, the scriptures say it is wrong to unequally yoked together with an unbeliever.  But that has nothing to do with race.

My own daughter is married to a fine young African American.  There were some disapproving looks at one church I pastored while they were dating.  Now that I ampastoring a mission church with no building yet, they requested and were turned down by yet another church to use their facilities for their Christian wedding.  We finally used a nice community center and had a wonderful service.  One of the people who helped the most in getting the wedding ready was one of the members of the church that turned us away.

So what is my point?  First, God is not opposed to interracial marriage and there are example in the Bible to prove the point.  Second, don't throw the baby out with the bath water.  I have read many posts by people saying bad things about Christianity because of this vote by the Kentucky church.  But remember the ones who voted against it.  Remember the lady who helped at my daughter's wedding.  Just because some Christians have it wrong, is no reason to throw out Christianity.

One day all the saved of all races will be together with the Lord in heaven.  I look forward to that day when red, yellow, black, and white become meaningless and all that matters is that we are brothers and sisters in Christ.  To God be the glory!

 

Keeping Life in Perspective

November 27, 2011

Holding my newborn granddaughter in my arms this past week gave me pause to think about all that is right with the world.  At the same time knowing that her cousin, only a few months old himself, was in a hospital in another city to have major tests run reminded me that many of the things we think are big are actually very small.

Alli is so sweet.  She has features of both of her parents.  Looking at her sleeping peacefully in Papaw's arms, you know that God still smiles on this world.  There ...


Continue reading...
 

Of Making Many Books...

November 5, 2011

Of making of many books there is no end.  Thus says Soloman in Ecclesiastes 12:12.  So who am I to end the cycle?  I just sent the proposal for my new bookSurviving and Thriving in the Small Church to a potential publisher today.  It is an uplifting work designed to encourage small church leaders.

You see, so many of the books on the market today deal with things going on in big churches.  While it is inspiring to read how God blesses these mega congregations, it is hard sometimes to relate th...


Continue reading...
 

Finish the Course

September 3, 2011

  Near the end of Paul's life he stated he had finished the course.  That is, he had accomplished all that God meant for him to get done.  He did not get distracted, at least not for long.  He completed the ministry he had been born to do.

  I wonder how many of us can say the same thing.  My daughter works as cashier at a retail store.  She was talking to someone about a certain church.  The next customer in line stated that he was a member of that church but wasn't faithful to attend.  I ima...


Continue reading...
 

Individualism vs Community

August 1, 2011

I am currently reading a book that states that Western culture has corrupted the American churches.  One of the main tenets of the author is that America's fascination with the individual has been detrimental to the concept of community in the churches.

There is some basis for this view.  American society is certainly about me, me, me first and everyone else can get in line.  "You've got to look out for number one" is definitely a part of our culture's psyche.

And can anyone doubt that this has...


Continue reading...
 

The Need for Patience

July 24, 2011

One thing especially needed by small church pastors is patience.  It is so easy to try to run ahead of God and the church.  We have all of these great ideas that we're itching to put into practice.  This is amplified if we are in a congregation that is need of numerical growth and we can see some of the barriers in the way.

But all of life is about learning to wait on God's timing.  Going into a church as a new pastor and trying to change a lot of things is a certain recipe for conflict and di...


Continue reading...
 

Back to the Trenches

July 17, 2011

This week I returned to full time bivocational ministry.  I had quit Walmart after 10 1/2 years back in December.  I enjoyed the time off from retail but alas, the bills continue to come!  So this week I started back in retail at Radio Shack.  

There are so many parallels to the ministries I have had through the years.  Most notably, this business is a good one, but has seen sales slip in the past year.  There is a rebuilding process that will require time and effort to bring the profits back ...


Continue reading...
 

Take Time Out

June 28, 2011

Everyone needs time off, a vacation, a chance to think about things other than work. This is no less true for the small church pastor than anyone else.  Pastor, you need to get away from time to time.

Many pastors have trouble with this.  After all, we are called of God to this work and He will give us the extra energy we need to function.  Our job is not like others--souls hang in the balance and we must be there if we are going to minister to people.  We just don;t have time to get away.

Some...


Continue reading...
 

The Most Important Factor to Manage Change in the Small Church

June 11, 2011

Wow what a title!  Long titles are not usually my thing...but sometimes there is no short way to say something.  And guess what?  There is no short way to bring about change in the small church.

Too many pastors go into a small church with the idea that they are going to bring about many changes that will lead the congregation into the new century and remarkable growth.  That very seldom happens.  Instead, a few years and a lot of tears later, the pastor departs for "greener pastures" and the ...


Continue reading...
 

Preaching is Important

June 3, 2011

  I recently read a post on a blog about small churches in which the writer said she loved everything about small church except she would hate to give up good Bible preaching.  There seems to be a misconception out there that a little congregation must have inferior preaching.

  Let me assure you that such is not the case.  I have been in hundreds of small churches and heard some of the finest preaching to be found.  It is true that many mega church pastors have people on staff to do extra res...


Continue reading...
 

About Me

Terry Reed
Wynne, Arkansas
Terry Reed

Categories

 
Make a Free Website with Yola.